Thursday, July 22, 2010

Introducing Levi James Conklin

Born 7.14.10 at 4:16pm
7 lbs. 5 oz. 20 in.

For those who are interested (men need not apply), the birth story:

Brian and I made the difficult decision to be induced a bit early. Many of you probably know, but Jonah was 12 days overdue, my water broke, and I still didn't go into labor. He was also 9 lbs. 2 oz. and did a number on me during his delivery. Jonah himself also had some difficulties and needed physical therapy for a few months after birth due to his size. Our very conservative Dr. in Lincoln advised us to induce early with Abby in order to avoid the same delivery scenario occurring, which could possibly cause surgery for me in the future if I had the same difficulty. Abby was induced 4 days early, was 7 lbs. 7 oz., and it was a very easy labor and delivery for both Abby and I. Since this was our first baby in Omaha and we have a new Dr., the decision was really up to us and we decided to stick with our Dr. in Lincoln's advice and induce early to avoid any major complications again. Our Dr. here has no problem inducing at 39 weeks, so at 39 weeks and 1 day we scheduled our induction.

Labor itself was smooth. We got to the hospital at 7 am, I was started on pitocin, and my Dr. came around 8:30 am or so and broke my water. By 10:00 am I was in active labor with contractions 2-3 minutes apart. I was progressing well, got an epidural around noon or so (could there be a more wonderful product of modern medicine??) and at 3:50 pm I was 8 cm dialated. Two contractions later (while both nurse and husband were out of the room!) I could feel I was ready to push. The nurse checked me, and sure enough I was. About 5 minutes later my Dr. was in the room and I all set to push.

Abby was born in two pushes, so I joked that I could have this baby in one push. Not exactly. I had three pushes through the first contraction (pushing MUCH harder than I had to with Abby) and the Dr. could start to see his head. I asked what color his hair was and she said there was not much hair to speak of, but she thought dark. The next contraction I pushed three more times and the Dr. started saying "turn, turn, turn!" (I didn't know why at the time) and she was unsuccessfully trying to turn Levi over as he was face up, instead of face down as babies should be by the time of pushing. On the last contraction I did three more pushes and, with some assistance from my Dr., Levi was born. This is when my Dr. informed me that he had actually come out not only sunny side up, but also with his head tilted up instead of against his chin as babies usually do. When she said she saw no hair, what she was actually looking at was his forehead. She said he basically came out nose first. What a stinker! The nurse and Dr. said that if this was not my third baby and I didn't know how to push, there is now way he would have been born without a c-section. Thank goodness for his "big" big brother who went before him! Other than needing a little help to get the first cry out of him, Levi was born as healthy as can be, albeit with some bruising on the forehead, cheek, and a swollen nose.

On the flip side (boys, plug your ears), I did have similar difficulties to what I had giving birth to Jonah and my recovery has been slow. I lost a significant amount of blood once again and instead of a transfusion, the Dr.'s have decided to see if I can build my iron back up with pills and rest. One week later I still am unable to grocery shop or really do anything too physical for more than 20 minutes or so without being exhausted and even feeling like I need to pass out. Thankfully, we've had some help around here with Brian's parents staying here for the first week, meals from church friends, and Brian able to stay home and help us get into some kind of routine before I go solo on Monday. :)

Levi is a total joy and we are absolutely in love with him. There's nothing like cuddling with a newborn. He is nursing like a champ, sleeping better every night (praise God!!) and becoming more alert every day. Jonah and Abby absolutely love him and are eager to help and cheer him up when he cries. It is such a blessing to see them interact and love on each other. Now, for pictures....

Checking into the hospital. This hospital is actually new and has only been open for about 3 weeks. The nurse had some trouble finding some needed items after Levi's delivery as they are still getting settled, but the food was delicious. :)
Just born. He had a super long piece of umbilical cord as the Dr. was trying to rush to get to me after his delivery and clamped it a bit far out. She also didn't "milk" the cord, so when Brian cut it, blood squirted all over his face, shirt, shorts, and even shoes. :) It was actually pretty funny. Thankfully he had a new shirt to change into before he went out to tell the eager grandparents about the delivery... I think my mom would have passed out.
So happy to finally be able to hold him in my arms.
The grandparents' first time to hold him.
The kids being introduced to Levi for the first time.
Levi gave the kids each a gift. Abby was very excited to get her baby doll from him.
Moving up to post-partum. Shortly after this point, the tornado sirens started going off... We actually had a bit of chaos once we got up there. My epidural hadn't worn off, so we (me on my bed, Levi, Jonah, Abby, Brian, and his parents) were wheeled into the nursery area to wait out the major windstorm. About a half hour later we were finally able to settle in our room.
Jonah holding Levi for the first time. He had been so excited my whole pregnancy for this moment. :)
Abby's turn.
After the kids and everyone left, we saw this huge double rainbow out our window and it almost looked as if it was coming from our house. It was an awesome reminder of God's promises and protection of us. We also saw some great sunrises out this window.
Proud daddy.
We didn't get pictures of all of our visitors, but here's Aunt Dana holding Levi for the first time.
Cousin Emma, future babysitter in the making.
Cousins Elise and Ethan.
Molly and Dustin, minus their new baby Claire. Molly actually watched Jonah and Abby so Papa and Mimi could be at the hospital during Levi's delivery... thanks Molly!
Heading home.
The first bath at home. Jonah had a hard time watching Levi cry and spent the whole time trying to console him. It was very sweet.
Much better.
Papa and Mimi asked Jonah what he wanted on Levi's birthday cake and Jonah chose "Levi, we're glad you're here". We are!
A fifth grandson for Papa and Mimi. Thanks for all of your help while you were here!!
Another close up.
Levi is now eight days old and it is so hot we've been doing a lot of playing with water outside. Today, Levi and I sat outside to join in the fun. He wasn't so sure at first.
Jonah and Abby were very sure, however. They love the sprinklers!
Levi still unsure why we're out there.
Warming up to the idea.
Abby and I now have to really stick together, being outnumbered by boys and all.
The rule was no shooting mommy and Levi. Nice try Abby.
Get daddy instead.
Daddy attempting to run for cover.
A few more of the little guy. He eventually loved being outside.
Love those baby legs!


We are so excited to welcome this guy into our family and have him home. I keep telling Brian that I love the feeling of having three children, no matter how tiring and challenging it may be. He has already been a blessing to us and I can't wait to see him grow and have another little individual running around here! OK, I can wait for the running to begin for a while... :)

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Soon and Very Soon

We are on the end of a very busy Spring and quickly moving into a very busy summer. I am ready to move on, however. A few things we can check off the list:

  • we are SO SO close to being done with the remodel with just a bit of touch up paint to to.
  • The basement is back in working order, just needs a bit of reorganization.
  • Brian will be driving home tonight from his third trip to western Nebraska in the last 6 weeks and fourth overnight trip he's had during this time.
  • The kids were in a friend's wedding two weeks ago, as cute as can be.
  • VBS week was last week and fun and exhausting at the same time.
A few things coming up:

  • Preparing for the baby. I can honestly say I haven't done a thing. Washed clothes, carseat covers, even considered a hospital bag... anything. I need to get moving on this! Brian being around again will be a big help in this direction.
  • Painting and decorating for Jonah's room. He's moving into our guest room (which will become a Husker room) and the baby will be in Jonah's room.
  • Brian's sister Ali and her husband Nick will be coming to visit after the 4th of July. So excited to have them here and hang out.
  • Shortly thereafter, hopefully, having this baby! I'm physically feeling ready, but in now way do I feel prepared on the homefront. I can use these last 3 weeks. Thankfully my kids are not early arrivers thus far.

Another thing checked off the list a few weeks ago, Brian's golf marathon. It's a biggy for him and takes a lot of preparation, so we're glad to have it done. The kids and I always come to hang out for part of the day and they had a blast. This was Jonah's 5th golf marathon. Funny to think about.

This year Abby got to take a few swings too.

These two love each other. Even if they fight at times...
Jonah going for the long putt.
I don't think daddy minds these days either...

The kids loved looking out over the front of the cart.
But Abby had to stand on Daddy's foot (which was also pushing the gas pedal) to do this. You can guess what happened. We all got out of the cart to go golf and Abby decided to get back in by herself. Of course, the second she goes to stand and look over the edge she had a run away cart. I saw this, started screaming for Brian and attempting to run. She got about 30 yards with Brian only half way there before she got off the pedal. That's my crazy girl! We can laugh about it now, but if there had been water, a tree, or a hill nearby I don't think we'd find it so funny. The first of many scares our curious girl will give us through the years I'm sure.
And a few pictures of the wedding they were in of Brian's admin assistant and their frequent babysitter Ashley. They walked down the aisle like champs. It was a beautiful wedding. Congratulations Josh and Ashley!
I love this picture of Abby. No nap and she's still going strong at 7:3.
Pictures of the kitchen are on the way. If you are wondering why they haven't been posted yet, please see above. Can't wait for things to slow down a bit soon! And I can't believe I'm saying that knowing a newborn is on the way, but at least we will be HOME and settled as a family for a while.

Monday, May 31, 2010

Year One Down the Tubes

Jonah has his first year of school under his belt. Two weeks ago Jonah had his final ice cream social and goodbye with all of his friends. He really did love preschool and is excited to do it again next year again. I cannot believe a year from now he'll be doing kindergarten roundup! We'll cross that bridge when we come to it...

I will have a little of all the toppings, please. Jonah is our sweets eater to the core. And he usually has record speed.
Ending where they began, here they are on their carpet for one last time.
I love the chaos in this picture. He made lots of new friends and hopefully will have teachers just as wonderful next year.
The next day the family joined me for one of my routine Dr. appointments. They are every two weeks now! I can't believe I'm getting that close. I certainly don't feel that prepared. :)
The Dr. had the kids help measure my tummy and find the heartbeat with the doppler. They thought it was the coolest thing ever and it was fun to have them so excited and able to interact with their new brother. In a side note, I think this picture is what Abby will look like come high school. She looks so old to me!
Only 7 more weeks to go, which I count as 6 more weekends and all of which are basically filled, so this baby will be here before we know it! One of these days I need to start getting things ready for him... I can't wait to meet and hold my newborn, all-curled-up little guy!